Five Core Concepts Of Parent-Child Education (1)
Professional success cannot compensate for the failure of educating children. Educating children is our top priority. Therefore, today I will share the five core concepts of parent-child education:
1. Family education is far more important than school education
2.Early childhood education is much more important than adult education.
3. Parent-child relationship is more important than parent-child education.
4. Marriage is far more important than parent-child relationship
5. Parents study hard, children make progress every day
Family education is far more important than school education
No matter how hard the teacher works, he cannot replace the role of parents. No matter how great the school is, it cannot replace the family. The family is the child’s first school, and the parents are the child’s first teachers and the principal who never retired. Therefore, parents should develop a good learning attitude instead of providing one-on-one counseling for their children. Instead of allowing children to enter Tsinghua University, it is better to create a happy family atmosphere for them. The family is a one-year-old school that has the greatest impact on children. I really want to suggest that all people engaged in early childhood education put the core and focus of early childhood education on educating parents. Elementary schools should do the same, that is, let all children's parents spend at least two days a month in closed courses! Let every parent study at least two days a month! why? Because if the parents do not cooperate, if the parents do not change, all teacher education is futile. In terms of educating children, is the school the main body or the family? From the perspective of the child's character and the child's psychological development, the family is the subject. In terms of instilling knowledge and improving ability, schools are the main body. Parents, do you think knowledge and ability are important, or personality and character? Of course, this is personality and personality, so are personality and personality dominated by family or school? This is a family, so family education is much more important than school education.
If there are two - eight rules, family education accounts for 80% and school education only accounts for 20%.
Therefore, parents and friends, parents are the certificates that the world deserves. Will you cross the road with your eyes closed? Can you drive with your eyes closed? Can you go far without sailing? Of course not, so how to educate children with eyes closed? Do you have the qualifications, qualifications and certificates to educate children? Have you studied family education and parent-child education? Nowadays, you need a driver's license, and a chef needs a chef's license. The lawyer has a lawyer's license. Doctors, teachers and professional managers have professional qualification certificates. Even farmers must pay attention to science when growing vegetables. ? Educating children must not only pay attention to science, but also pay attention to professionalism, so parents must hold work certificates. In fact, a new school was born on the day the two young people got married. In this school, the father is the principal, the mother is the head teacher, and the children are students. Since it is the principal and the head teacher, it must be a class. Parents start classes, teachers relax and students progress. Principals and principals, that is, parents, must be able to guide, instruct, inspire and teach children. If these four guidelines are not done well or well, then the parents of the family will mislead the children.
Obama said: I can't be president for the rest of my life, but I will be the father for the rest of my life. Therefore, the career of raising children is a lifetime. This is a lifetime system. We cannot lay off employees, cannot ask for leave, cannot retire, or resign, even if we are tired, we cannot ask for leave. When we are tired, we cannot be called tired because it is voluntary. If we suffer pain, we cannot complain, because this is our choice. Therefore, since this is a lifetime occupation, each of our parents should participate in the family education immediately after the child is born. In some families, only Bao's mother educates the children, and the father does not care about anything except work. This is impossible. Since the birth of a child is a partnership between two people, raising and educating children should also be a partnership between two people. The core of family education is to make the child the pride of the family and let him fly
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1. Family education is far more important than school education
2.Early childhood education is much more important than adult education.
3. Parent-child relationship is more important than parent-child education.
4. Marriage is far more important than parent-child relationship
5. Parents study hard, children make progress every day